Yes we will have to compare notes. My ex is still a practicing JW annointed pioneer elder. But he has alot in common with your ex. He has never paid child support for his three children. Nor does he have anything to do with them. Since they believe the borg is a cult...he is to afraid they reflect on him..They are all still in school and he has had nothing to do with seeing them even in a school setting. He uses the excuse that their mom is DF'd so he can't come around.
Keep coming back and welcome to living!!!!!