For some reason i cant seem to cut and past on here so i am unable to send the link. If you type into the search bar on the top left hand side "how many in the cong visited you after you started fading" and it should bring up the thread.
I'm out- Random thoughts on leaving as I look in the rear view mirror
Thank you all for your comments. I wish the same success to those who were in my position. It is funny both my wife and I are now at the point where if the Elders wanted to df us we would probably just shrug and say "whatever". It is a good place to be to have gotten past the fear of man.