BU2B, there are lots of Threads on here about how to do the "Sloooow fade" as BB calls it. The clue is in the name, it has to be VERY slow, so as to be imperceptible to those around you, and of course the Elders.
You will have to accept the Label of "weak" of course, but the slow fade has worked for many.
In my case it was, 1) stand down as M.S one year, 2) stop F.S the next year, 3)stop Meetings the following year, almost a perfect 12 months between each stage.
During the last stage I had intended to turn up at the Hall intermittently, but one day I walked out and could never face going back.
I have had to face, at first, questions from family, friends, Elders etc, abundant advice is on here in how to handle those.
That all stopped years ago, I have "Faded" now, Mrs Phizzy is out too, which I was not at all sure of when I ceased to attend.
Those of us that have done a fade that worked are lucky I guess, but it does work in many cases, it is a Third Way.