"Hello from Phats"

by phats 38 Replies latest jw friends

  • phats
    phats

    Hay out there.

    Wife got back from her Thursday meeting & now she's setteled down with the dog, a V large G&T (maid be me) & watching Terminator 2 on the telly with her Ipad on her lap looking up places to go for our holiday (& Googling symptoms of to many antibiotics as my 16 year old is getting signs of IBS)

    So now is a good time to say Hello.

    Well hello. My name is Phats & I'm an ex Jehovah's Witness.

    There, I've said it.

    This must be like it is going to your first AA meeting.

    I've already used up some of my posts for a newbe but I'm not in to the whole long story thing.

    Basically I've been out now for 8 years (mentally out for all but four or five of those years of my life when I made the commitment, got baptized & married.)

    I was a bourn in to a "divided home" (who made the division? I don't know) Anyway. My mum was & still is very in & my Dad (always out died in 2010 at 89 years.)

    I'm not DFed or anything. I managed a quick (about 12 weeks) fade & have loads of family still very in & some fully out.

    The whole JW thing has been a total & all encroaching part of my life from day one. Still is in many ways to this day.

    Wife still in. 12 year old daughter still in (mainly for Mum I believe but we will see) & a 16 year old daughter totally out.

    I'm sure I'll fill in the gaps over time but I am very pleased to be here & hope to talk to many of you along the way.

    Phats.

  • neverendingjourney
    neverendingjourney

    Hello, Phats. Welcome.

    I was listening to an ex-Mormon podcast yesterday where the word "post-Mormon" was used. I liked that. I think from now I'll consider myself a "post-Witness."

  • disposable hero of hypocrisy
    disposable hero of hypocrisy

    Hey phats, welcome matey! I'm looking forward to when I can say I'm an ex! Well done!

  • cofty
    cofty

    Welcome phats

  • Crazyguy
    Crazyguy

    Welcome

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    Welcome, Phats. I love your description of the scenario. I can picture it all.

  • skeeter1
    skeeter1

    Welcome Phats!

    May I suggest your next hoiiday destination? Orlando for a few days with Mickey Mouse, then an 8 hour drive to the Florida Keys. Spend 4 or so days in the Keys. You can leave from Miami. Sounds like you are in England?

    Skeeter

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    Q: What would you call them if Phats was able to influence his ENTIRE FAMILY to wake up to TTATT?

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    A: Phat's Dominoes!

    (Groan, rimshot.) I'll be here all week.

    Oh, and, WELCOME TO JWN!

    om

  • LisaRose
    LisaRose

    Hello and Welcome.

    Lisa

  • NewYork44M
    NewYork44M

    Welcome Phats, you are a great story teller. I look forward to many posts from you.

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