I don't know if I've ever shared this weird story.
As you probably know, I was a "bit" of an independent thinker and jw nonconformist, after having been forced into the borganization as a kid. I was a teen & plotting my escape. I also didn't want to do the "compulsory" female things my mother demanded of me, such as having kids, being a wife, barefoot/kitchen sorta life.
A bro from another area came to the Sunday mtg. Turns out he was visiting a non-jw relative near where I lived. They made me go in d2d with him for maybe half an hour. I was nice to him but to me he was an older adult in my mind.
The next thing I know, I got a letter from him. It was really creepy. He had prayed to jehoopla for someone with my specific physical attributes, and then he met me. It was meant to be & we were to become engaged or at least strongly hinting at it. I was to move to Canada and be a stay-at-home mother.
As a socially immature jw teen, my skin crawled. My mother pressured me quite a bit to marry him. So did the ladies in the kingkongregation. Big pressure. They discussed it with the "older men" who counseled me about it. Thankfully I had a mind of my own.
Srsly this was their way to shut me up and keep me dependent.