Pad--alittle advice from someone who has been on and off involved with a dub for OMG tooooooo long...RUN, run fast, get this dude out of your system, forget him, just purge him from your heart anyway you can--before it's too late and he breaks your heart over and over again. When they say no they really mean yes, when they say yes, they get guilty afterwards, then you'll be pressured to join their demonic fold--that's when the serious trouble begins.. I don't know how spiritual you are, but beware the WT has tricks up their sleeves you could never imagine.
A Jw is not supposed to get involved w/ a worldly person. We are evil worldly people, just wanting to corrupt the innocent sheep and turn him into a rambling goat. It is wrong, in their stupid ass doctrines and beliefs. To even look at a worldly person, heaven forbid, that's very bad.
To say it'll work out in the long run, if you compromise, or he 'tries' to compromise, that's a dream, a fairy tale, won't happen, won't come true. Do some researchon WT. Click some of the links at bottom of this web page, learn what this dude your seeing is really all about, what crap is lodged in his head, and what you're up against. To cut to the chase, your up against a brick wall, and not even dynamite will budge it. This is from my own personal experience. I still sorta, kinda involved w/ him and every time I see him, he breaks my heart again...
Lara
BTW--Welcome to the board.