WMF, okay you have a point, but now on this thread I am making sure that posters know it's a circle of friends I am after not anything romantic, my social skills were a bit off and now I am putting it right, but as soon as I got a creepy proposal I made it public how I felt about my circustances, and even you said it sounds like I wasn't ready.
I could have got hurt if you hadn't pointed out to me somethind like "by asking you seem like your not ready". I was vulnerable and WMF, you protected me from doing something silly. Don't forget I only stopped going 4 weeks ago. Yeah I can pull you leg sometimes, but I don't do it in a flirty way to my knowledge I do it in a accademically challenging manner.
WMF, you do have a good point, but I will take the rough with the smooth, so if your family want to come to the meet up we would love to see you all there in London in April, you're no creep WMF, you are a laugh a minute on science threads.
Kate .. no kisses for you now mister