Just noticed this thread had been bumped up awhile ago, been very busy. My apologies for delayed response.
CHELLECHELLERETURNS- I'm glad that you haven't had to deal with JW's at your door- although it sounds like your JW mom is very passive aggressive towards you and is trying to sabatoge your reputation among other people you know. Please take care to protect your 8 month old son from your JW family as they WILL try to indoctrinate him and possibly influence him against you in time. Your mom seems like the type to do it- I've seen that type among JW's I knew. My ex-wife was like that badmouthing me to everybody within earshot. JW's love the gossip and rumor mill. Hang in there we're here for you.
JGNAT- Very true, it IS Chell'es mom who made bad choices, not Chelle. People like Chelle need a lot of our support, thanks for sharing kind words to her