I have a word I use all the time for non-JW's, I call them, and myself, "Normal People".
This is quite deliberate, as JW's are, without doubt, abnormal.
I am glad "Confused", that you have found such a place and the pleasure of such conversation and playing a game together. I love all "Blokey" things like that.
I love Cigar smoke too, the big Cuban boys give off the most wonderful smell !!!
I had a friend who used to smoke beautiful Cigars, sadly she has passed away now, nothing to do with the smoking, but when I was a JW I used to encourage her to light up, I loved the smell, and as she was truly beautiful, I found it a kind of a turn-on too, she had a mind of her own that girl, I miss her.
Enjoy your freedom to the full ! Life is for living !