It hit the fan

by truthseeker1 51 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    truth,

    : I thought this too, then I thought about this. Jehovah works on his own timetable. Time has little meaning to Jehovah.

    Then if you believe this and believe that Jehovah's only true organization is the Watchtower Bible and Printing Corporation, you'll also have to admit that Jehovah doesn't have a problem with fucking people up for decades. Then you'll have to ask yourself what kind of loving God who could instantly "spirit direct" and correct the problems of his only people would sit back and allow them to be fucked up and even needlessly DIE for all those decades?

    : There are inaccuracies, but the Org DOES change their beliefs when they see that they are wrong.

    More specifically, when they've lost huge amounts of membership due to idiotic doctrine and policies, or when they are facing huge financial losses due to lawsuits. Better study the history of your religion a little more, truth.

    : Other religions don't do this.

    Baloney. The Catholic church has changed many doctrines, and so have almost all the others. If your religion would actually let you study other religions, you'd already know this.

    : Sure they were wrong about 1914, and perhaps about other things now.

    There's no "perhaps." They ARE wrong about a whole bunch of things.

    : If I just wait on things to surface and trust in Jehovah, I'm sure these matters will be solved.

    You're speaking the JW "party line," but I understand. I said those same words myself in the past. But you are only saying those words because you still believe "Jehovah" has anything to do with the WTS. He doesn't, and the facts prove it.

    " Try not to criticize them too much for changing their beliefs. All Ex-JW changed their beliefs when they thought what they were believing was wrong, why cant the Org do that too?

    ex-JW don't claim to be the exclusive mouthpiece of God, that's why.

    : One last point is that in bible history, people directed by Jehovah have made mistakes. Moses, David, and others all were being led by Jehovah when they messed up.

    Name one false prediction made by any of those ancient prophets. Name one false doctrine stated by any of those ancient prophets. You can't.

    : Just my 2 cents.

    You need a little more than that to get a cup of coffee!

    Farkel

  • Dutchie
    Dutchie

    Jehovah's Witnesses don't just get "New Light", they also get "Flickering Light".

  • apostate man
    apostate man

    The big one that gets me is YOU HAVE TO BELONG TO THE ORG TO BE SAVED!

    Only through decades and a decades of brainwashing is this evident. What if another Organization came along with the EXACT same doctrines , rules and beliefs and they said you had to be part of their org to be saved. Would you believe that? Wouldn't you ask for some proof?

    Does it say this in WT's literature? YES. Does it say this in the Bible anywhere? NO, it's not.

    Any loving religion would tell you that you should attend church, but at the same time tell you it is not required to join an ORG. to serve God. God is everywhere, not just in a KH, and what is in your heart is most important, not what you CO's or Elders think. The Elders, etc. aren't going to buy you a ticket into heaven.

    I don't beleive in any of the DUmBS beliefs, yet I could tolerate this CULT if they didn't put such a tight strangle hold on the followers, if they didn't use scare tactics to keep you in, if they didn't allow---no... INSIST that people die when they need blood, harbor child molesters, ....the list goes on and on.

  • SEAKEN2001
    SEAKEN2001

    Hi truthseeker1,

    I went back and read your story to get some background. I can relate to your situation, as can many others here who love their mates but cannot agree on matters of religion. I was a true believer for over 30 years and my father and mother and their parents before them. I can assure you that what you are reading about in Crisis of Conscience, and then in it's sequel In Search of Christian Freedom, really happened. You must be careful about stereo-typing Ex-JW's. There is no common characteristic or group mentality among the many thousands of people who were once active JW's but are no longer. You will get some responses (in fact you already have) that are confrontational and you will get some that are "upbuilding" and that just "look good". (Remember that thread?) If it isn't evident to you yet, it will be soon that JW's prefer the non-confrontational "feel good" "upbuilding" type of conversation. Please understand that it is only a fantasy. You have not had enough experience to know what the organization is really like. You are only at the surface where things are carefully orchestrated to evoke a positve public opinion.

    You may be tempted to think I am trying to fool you and am deliberatly talking with smooth words to trick you. If you are a true believer I would not expect you to think otherwise. But from your shared experiences I don't think you are yet a true believer. You still want to think for yourself and make up your own mind. To that end I would suggest that you continue to read and think before you decide to do anything. You want to do it fast but this is so complicated that it just cannot be done fast. The only way it can be done fast is for you to make one of two decisions. Either decide to not take a chance on losing your wife and do what you are told and believe what you are told to believe, or risk losing her by declaring you are no longer a JW and will no longer be told what to believe by anyone. Both of those choices will be painful but the first one will probably be a delayed pain that you will feel much later in life.

    From what I can tell from reading your comments you are not the type of person who can just go along, toe the line, and let everyone think you are a believer when you are not. If you choose that road it will likely end up making you a bitter old man. If you were that personality type it is possible to just go along and play the part of the "weak" inactive husband and have a reasonably happy marriage. But if you ever want to express yourself and have real heart to heart discussions with your friends on biblical themes or religious topics you can forget it. It's not going to happen. The only chance for you to be able to express your own opinions and ideas on matters of doctrine and biblical themes is for you to become a butt-kissing yes-man and be promoted to a position of authority in your circuit. The witnesses do not tell you this when they study with you. There is no middle ground. You must turn yourself into a true believer and fully throw yourself into the proselytizing work or get out. Anything less and you will always be considered weak and no one will discuss anything "deep" with you or give any consideration to your own ideas on subjects relating to your own faith. At best they will tolerate you and keep you at arms length. But if you get too insistant on talking with people about JW doctrine and biblical theology they will shut you up. You will either comply and clam up or be forcibly removed, through official channels.

    Now, it's possible that you live in an area where there is more tolerance. But don't expect that because you love Jehovah and are convinced that he is directing your path that you will be exempt from harsh treatment. The organization is run like a machine and there is very little "convincing" or "reasoning" with your superiors. That convincing and reasoning is for non-believers only. Now that you are baptized you will be responsible to follow directions. If at any time in the future you feel like objecting to the policy of your organization you can expect to be harshly confronted. Your choices will be limited to remaining silent or changing your mind and teaching the party line. No alternatives, no compromises, are considered. If you confront your father-in-law as to whether this is true he will probaly say something like this: "you are allowed to question the Society and can even approach the GB by letter directly. There are differences of opinion among the brothers all the time and they are allowed. You should be in some of our meetings and hear how heated we get sometimes. No one is disfellowhipped for doubts or questions. This guy you are messaging with is just a disgruntled fellow who obviously didn't get the answer he wanted to hear so now he's upset with the organization. He just allowed himself to be stumbled. Don't let that slow you down. I promise you, Jehovah knows what's in the hearts of all men and will see to it that things are done right." Or, something like that. It's a sad truth that all true believers will say or do anything to protect their organization. What you have to decide is whether or not you will believe the "upbuilding" talk of your JW associates or whether you will believe the heart wrenching and often distasteful stories of those who have been where you are trying to go. Why would you want to risk your entire youth on a fantasy? You have the opportunity to direct your life in the way you want to right in front of you, right now. Unlike so many of us, you still have your youth. Many of us didn't know half of what you know about the Society until we were well beyond middle age. Believe me, it's harder to face these things when you are 50 than it is at 25.

    Don't go too fast. You've got a little time to see if your wife really loves you because you are you, or because you are her faithful believing husband. Give her the benefit of the doubt and just let her work out her feelings for awhile. Maybe she will agree to look at your religion objectively and join with you in a mutual decision either for or against it. It's almost certain that at this time she is scared to death that you are falling out of the truth and that you will die soon at Armegeddon. Her chance of eternal happiness with you is clouded and uncertain. She needs to sort it out. She may decide to stick by you no matter what. But you must be ready to risk losing her if you decide to no longer be a JW. That is hard to take but that is the reality of the situation. If you feel you cannot swallow the JW doctrines and take up their cause 100% you may lose your wife anyway, depending on her own personal beliefs of what that will mean for her future. Better to find out now where she stands. But do it slowly. Read, think and keep your mouth shut for awhile. Be a good husband, a real good husband. Give her space and don't belittle her beliefs. Keep your doubts and your knowledge to yourself. Drop hints now and then to see how she responds. Try to determine if she has been working out the issues in her own mind and whether she may be ready to receive another question or two without resorting to calling you Satanic or apostate. You may want to set a certain time frame for yourself and be patient. If after attempting to win her unconditional love in your time period you feel she will never come around than it is time for more decision making on your part. Some decide to just remain the unbelieving or inactive husband. Others decide to move on and start over. That's your decision to make. Or, you may decide to forget about this decision making and thinking stuff and just go back to being a full-fledged Bible thumping JW.

    Whatever you decide, I know it is not easy. It is scary and you go from confident one day to an emotional wreck and weakling the next. I feel for you. I really do. I would not wish this on anyone, having lived it myself.

    Sean

  • JT
    JT

    Truthseeker 1

    if i can give you some advice, it is as follows
    READ READ READ as much as you can on the org

    if you are a true Truthseeker then you will find it.
    but you must be willing to accept it regardless of what it says

    you must be willing to call a spade a spade and let the chips fall were they may.

    you made the following statement:

    "There are inaccuracies, but the Org DOES change their beliefs when they see that they are wrong. Other religions don't do this."

    *******

    now with just a little research you can see that your statement is wrong, in fact not to dog you per say , but only to illustrate that your statement merely reflects what happesn when a jw tries to defend the org and has very little background on what the org has said on matters,

    notice how many poster praise the wt for seeing the need to CHANGE DOGMA, how wonderful it is to change dogma,

    yet notice how when OTHERS DO THE EXACT SAME THING CHANGE DOGMAS

    THE WT DOGS THEM

    Please do your research it will be to your benifit

    this is a REPOST, it is long but read thru it carefully and ask yourself some SOUL SEARCHING QUESTIONS on the LOFTY CLAIMS OF THE WT

    namely:
    WE ARE THE ONLY SOURCE OF TRUTH ON THE EARTH BEING THAT WE ARE GOD'S EXCULSIVE MOUTH PC

    REPOST
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    Posted by N.H. [Pravo] on June 10, 1999 at 00:00:18 {y2u3G9j8XoaIoBvjGAvoX.sgIvMbfw}:

    Friend

    You stated on Witness.net:

    :We could discuss those statements made by the WTS suggesting that 1975 would realize
    Armageddon, but why, they have admitted as much. Just like early Christians, Christians today make
    mistakes. So it is with Jehovah’s Witnesses. Have there been mistaken notions about beliefs, yes,
    many in fact.

    However, the making of mistakes, even doctrinal ones, is not the criteria for
    determining Christianity. Love is that indicator. Besides that, Christians pursue teaching people the
    Bible, unrelentingly so. Additionally, real Christians are willing to alter beliefs previously held
    dear, if they are demonstrated wrong.

    I am glad you cleared up this one, because this prove that the Catholics are "real Christians" back in
    the seventies when they changed the, abstain-from-meat-on- Friday" rule.

    Your masters in Brooklyn however milked this change for all its worth and ridiculed the Catholic
    church because of this change. They quite obviously disagree with you that, "to alter beliefs
    previously held dear" is a sign of a "Real Christian", unless of course when it is the WTS who make
    the change. Just take a look at this:

    Changes That Disturb People

    Was the title of an article in 22 of April 1970, Awake! Magazine. As the title indicates people became
    disturbed by certain changes. What changes? Let the Awake! Tell us:

    *** g70 4/22 8 Changes That Disturb People ***
    Changes That Disturb People
    One of the reasons is that people are disturbed by what is happening in their churches. Yes,
    millions of persons have been shocked to learn that things they were taught as being vital for
    salvation are now considered by their church to be wrong. Have you, too, felt
    discouragement, or even despair, because of what is happening in your church?

    Oh yes, how awful. Millions of Catholics have of course been shocked by all the doctrine shift’s of
    the church. How wonderful it must be a JW, because we all know that the Watchtower Society
    NEVER changes anything.

    *** g70 4/22 8 Changes That Disturb People ***
    Changes That Disturb People

    A businessman in Medellín, Colombia, expressed the effect the changes have had on many.
    “Tell me,” he asked, “how can I have confidence in anything? How can I believe in the
    Bible, in God, or have faith? Just ten years ago we Catholics had the absolute truth, we put all
    our faith in this.

    Now the pope and our priests are telling us this is not the way to believe any
    more, but we are to believe ‘new things.’ How do I know the ‘new things’ will be the truth in
    five years?” What are some of these changes that disturb people?

    The businessman from Colombia certainly raised some interesting questions which indeed demands
    some answers. Maybe they should ring some bells with the JW’s as well.
    Anyway, the changes that was so shocking to the poor Catholics was as follows:

    *** g70 4/22 8-10 Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday? ***
    Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday?
    FOR centuries Catholics abstained from eating meat on Fridays. It was a Church law. Many
    sincerely believed it was a law of Almighty God. But now this has changed.
    The fact is that the meatless-Friday rule was made an obligation only some 1,100 years ago.
    Pope Nicholas I (858-867) was the one who put it into effect. And how vital was it
    considered that Catholics abide by this rule? A publication that bears the Catholic
    imprimatur, indicating approval, states:

    “The Catholic Church says that it is a mortal sin for a
    Catholic to eat meat on Friday knowingly and wilfully, without a sufficiently grave and
    excusing reason.” It adds: The “Church says that if a man dies in unrepented mortal sin, he
    will go to hell.”—Radio Replies, Rumble and Carty (1938).

    Imagine that! Some Catholics even regarded this as “a law of Almighty God” and then (gasp) it was
    CHANGED!! No wonder they were upset. But Awake! continue to milk this subject for all its worth.

    *** g70 4/22 8-10 Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday? ***
    Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday?

    Thus the devout carefully avoided eating meat on Fridays. They sincerely believed that
    failure to obey could lead to their eternal punishment in a fiery hell. But then, early in 1966,
    Pope Paul VI authorized local Church officials to modify this abstinence requirement in their
    countries as they saw fit. The pope was acting in line with recommendations made at the
    recently completed Second Vatican Council. Thus, in one country after another, meatless
    Fridays were virtually abolished—in France, Canada, Italy, Mexico, the United States, and so
    on.

    The Effect
    The effect upon many devout Catholics has been devastating. “All these years I thought it
    was a sin to eat meat,” explained a housewife in the midwestern United States. “Now I
    suddenly find out it isn’t a sin. That’s hard to understand.”

    If you are a Catholic, can you
    understand how a practice that was considered by the Church a “mortal sin” can suddenly be
    approved? if it was a sin five years ago, why is it not today? Many Catholics cannot
    understand. When a woman in Canada was asked how she felt about the changes in her
    church, she replied: “I don’t know. Maybe you can tell me. What are they going to do with
    all those people sent to hell for eating meat on Friday?”

    Not just a few Catholics have asked such questions. The change in teaching has shaken their
    confidence in the Church. Would you not feel the same way if what you had always been
    taught to be vital for salvation was suddenly considered unnecessary? Would you not be
    inclined to question other teachings of your church also?

    *** g70 4/22 8-10 Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday? ***
    Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday?

    Many persons have begun to ask questions regarding the basis for this teaching, as well as
    about other Church teachings. And what especially disturbs them is that they have not
    received satisfying answers.
    What Becomes Evident
    The inability of the Church to explain its position Scripturally makes evident an important
    fact: The Catholic Church has not based its teachings upon what God’s Word says. Rather, it
    has founded many of its beliefs and practices on the unstable traditions of men.

    The Awake! article indeed raises interesting and good questions. It would indeed be disturbing for a
    sincere Christian when the church that he belong to for many years claim that something is a deadly
    sin and then suddenly it isn’t. This would be especially disturbing if that church claimed to be the only
    true Church. In defense of the Catholic Church it can be said that not eating meat on Friday’s didn’t
    put anybody’s life in jeapordy. A stupid and inconvenient rule, yes, but hardly lethal.

    The superior and indignant tone of the Awake! article indicates that something like this could of
    course not take place in the Watchtower Society. Jehovah’s Organization are of course different from
    those “man made”. To display such shifts in doctrine is of course unknown for Jehovah’s “Channel of
    communication”. Or is it?

    Lets investigate and see what we will find. In the 60thies when transplants was in its beginning the
    Watchtower wrote:

    *** w61 8/1 480 Questions from Readers ***
    • Is there anything in the Bible against giving one’s eyes (after death) to be transplanted to
    some living person?—L. C., United States.
    The question of placing one’s body or parts of one’s body at the disposal of men of science or
    doctors at one’s death for purposes of scientific experimentation or replacement in others is
    frowned upon by certain religious bodies. However, it does not seem that any Scriptural
    principle or law is involved. It therefore is something that each individual must decide for
    himself. If he is satisfied in his own mind and conscience that this is a proper thing to do, then
    he can make such provision, and no one else should criticize him for doing so. On the other
    hand, no one should be criticized for refusing to enter into any such agreement.

    As correctly pointed out there wasn’t anything in the Scriptures about this so it would be up to the
    individual, and there should be no critizism of the decision. Then in 1967 another Question from the
    readers gave this answer:

    *** w67 11/15 702 Questions from Readers ***
    Questions from Readers
    • Is there any Scriptural objection to donating one’s body for use in medical research or to
    accepting organs for transplant from such a source?—W. L., U.S.A.

    Humans were allowed by God to eat animal flesh and to sustain their human lives by taking
    the lives of animals, though they were not permitted to eat blood. Did this include eating
    human flesh, sustaining one’s life by means of the body or part of the body of another human,
    alive or dead? No! That would be cannibalism, a practice abhorrent to all civilized people….
    To show disrespect for the sanctity of human life would make one liable to have his own life
    taken.—Gen. 9:5, 6….

    When men of science conclude that this normal process will no longer work and they suggest
    removing the organ and replacing it directly with an organ from another human, this is simply
    a shortcut. Those who submit to such operations are thus living off the flesh of another
    human. That is cannibalistic.

    From being a question of individual conscience it was now regarded as cannibalism to accept
    transplants. If you remember one of the statements from the above Awake! article that said: “For
    centuries Catholics abstained from eating meat on Fridays. It was a Church law.

    Many sincerely
    believed it was a law of Almighty God.” So like these Catholics, Jehovah’s Witnesses who had
    sincerely believed that transplants was up to them to decide, now very sincerely had to believe that it
    was cannibalism and “a law of Almighty God”. In obedience to the “Almighty” all JW’s abstained
    from transplants. Compared to the “meat on Friday” business this was a much more serious matter,
    because it involved peoples health.

    But that didn’t stop “Jehovah’s Channel” in Brooklyn from continuing the tragedy.
    13 years later it was time for Jehovah’s Witnesses to once again “sincerely” believe that transplants
    “is a matter for conscientious decision by each one of Jehovah’s Witnesses”

    *** w80 3/15 31 Questions from Readers ***
    Questions from Readers
    • Should congregation action be taken if a baptized Christian accepts a human organ
    transplant, such as of a cornea or a kidney?
    Regarding the transplantation of human tissue or bone from one human to another, this is a
    matter for conscientious decision by each one of Jehovah’s Witnesses…….

    While the Bible
    specifically forbids consuming blood, there is no Biblical command pointedly forbidding the
    taking in of other human tissue. For this reason, each individual faced with making a decision
    on this matter should carefully and prayerfully weigh matters and then decide conscientiously
    what he or she could or could not do before God. It is a matter for personal decision. (Gal.
    6:5) The congregation judicial committee would not take disciplinary action if someone
    accepted an organ transplant.

    The Catholic’s “meat of Friday” change, completely pale in significance compared with this insane
    mess of wishy washy rules who puts peoples life and health in danger. Look at how the Awake!
    ridicule of the Catholic’s approach to the Bible:

    *** g70 4/22 8-10 Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday? ***
    Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday?

    This is obviously true with regard to Friday meat abstinence. For, look as you may, nowhere
    in the Bible will you find that Christians were ever instructed to refrain from eating meat on
    any Friday of the year, or on any other day. It is not a requirement of God.

    Oh, dear. You can’t find anywhere in the Bible instructions about refraining “from eating meat on any
    Friday”. Yet the same complete lack in the Bible of instructions about refraining from transplants,
    didn’t stop the Governing Body from presenting them as “a law of Almighty God”. That this so
    obviously wasn’t “a requirement of God” didn’t seem to bother them a bit. But of course Catholic’s
    has every reason for being disturbed and upset. JW’s obviously hasn’t.

    *** g70 4/22 8-10 Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday? ***
    Should Meat Be Eaten on Friday?
    Thus, many truth-seekers are having their eyes opened to see that the Catholic Church has
    not been holding strictly to God’s Word. And they are wondering whether any religion that
    does not do so is worthy of their confidence and support. But there are other changes that are
    also disturbing people today.

    According to Awake! this shift in doctrine had the effect that “truth-seekers” now could se that: “the
    Catholic Church has not been holding strictly to God’s Word.” Apparently there is no reason for any
    “truth-seekers” to draw such conclusions about the Watchtower Society despite the fact that their
    changes are far more serious.

    Imagine what would happen if a Witness “in Medellín, Colombia,” had expressed these questions:
    “how can I have confidence in anything? How can I believe in the Bible, in God, or have faith? Just
    ten years ago we Jehovah’s Witnesses had the absolute truth, we put all our faith in this. Now the
    Governing Body and our elders are telling us this is not the way to believe any more, but we are to
    believe ‘new things.’ How do I know the ‘new things’ will be the truth in five years?”

    Let us do another experiment, lets take another part of the Awake! article and substitute Catholic
    with JW, etc and see how well these things fit the Watchtower:

    The Effect
    The effect upon many devout Jehovah’s Witnesses has been devastating. “All these years I thought it
    was a sin to take an organ transplant,” explained a housewife in the midwestern United States. “Now I
    suddenly find out it isn’t a sin. That’s hard to understand.” If you are a Jehovah’s Witness, can you
    understand how a practice that was considered by the Society a “mortal sin” can suddenly be
    approved? if it was a sin 13 years ago, why is it not today?

    Many Jehovah’s Witnesses cannot
    understand. When a woman in Canada was asked how she felt about the changes in her religion, she
    replied: “I don’t know. Maybe you can tell me. What are they going to do with all those people who
    was disfellowshipped for accepting an organ transplant?” Not just a few Jehovah’s Witnesses have
    asked such questions.

    The change in teaching has shaken their confidence in the Society. Would you
    not feel the same way if what you had always been taught to be vital for salvation was suddenly
    considered unnecessary? Would you not be inclined to question other teachings of your church also?

    Why don’t we see such relevant questions posed by Jehovah’s Witnesses. Because the person asking
    them would immediately find himself outside the organization. It is only Catholic’s and others who
    can afford the luxury of being “disturbed” by doctrinal changes.

    Jehovah’s Witnesses have of course no reason to do so. When the teachings of the Watchtower
    changes it is of course an entirely different matter.

    *** rs 205 Jehovah's Witnesses ***
    Why have there been changes over the years in the teachings of Jehovah’s Witnesses?
    The Bible shows that Jehovah enables his servants to understand his purpose in a progressive
    manner. (Prov. 4:18; John 16:12) Thus, the prophets who were divinely inspired to write
    portions of the Bible did not understand the meaning of everything that they wrote. (Dan.
    12:8, 9; 1 Pet. 1:10-12)

    The apostles of Jesus Christ realized that there was much they did not
    understand in their time. (Acts 1:6, 7; 1 Cor. 13:9-12) The Bible shows that there would be a
    great increase in knowledge of the truth during “the time of the end.” (Dan. 12:4) Increased
    knowledge often requires adjustments in one’s thinking. Jehovah’s Witnesses are willing
    humbly to make such adjustments.

    The Catholic’s of course not being Jehovah’s servants cannot claim that they understand God’s
    purpose in a progressive manner. I mean when the Prophet’s of old didn’t understand what they were
    writing how can one expect that the GB should understand it.
    They have time and time again demonstrated their inability to understand anything in the Bible. So
    when Catholic’s realized how utterly unbiblical the “meat on Friday” ban was and simply stopped the
    charade, that would lead to “truth-seekers” realizing that they was less than “strict” with the Bible.
    Jehovah’s Witnesses are unlike these detestable Catholic’s “willing humbly to make adjustments.”

    The moral of this matter is that when other religions make doctrinal shift’s, that is a a matter of great
    concern for their members who the has every reason to be upset, disturbed etc. Sincere
    “truth-seekers” should then realize that: “the Catholic Church has not been holding strictly to God’s
    Word.”

    When Jehovah’s Witnesses does much more serious full circle shifts from regarding transplant as a
    individual decision to regarding it as cannibalism back to being an individual choise. It is painted as
    understanding God’s purpose in a “progressive manner”, and perfectly in order. You can say
    whatever you want about the Watchtower Society, but honesty isn’t one of their most noticeable
    characters.

    Don't you think that this Awake! article is a good example of the double standard in Brooklyn? Why
    is all the doctrinal shifts and changes so wonderful when the WTS do it and why is it so horrible when
    the Catholic church so it? Could you explain?

    Norm.

  • truthseeker1
    truthseeker1

    Some of us here believe in the bible and some don't. To those who do believe in the bible, It is generally known there is a god in the bible. He had a son and sent him to the earth for a few reasons. Some of these reasons are to start a new convenant, to sacrifice his life for our sins and to teach. I happen to believe these things. Beyone what the bible says, I cannot be positive. It is only speculation. When I do meet with the elders I will say I am unsure about witness only 'doctrine' like UN, 1914, ext. If they kick me out for not believing in their specific doctrines not backed specifally mentioned in the bible then i'll be back here with you guys. If not, then I'll stay a JW. I will ask questions. I will not question the bible(i'll bring a few different translations to the meeting just to be safe). This is how I will stand. This has been a good experience for me either way it goes. I wasn't firmly rooted in anything, 'being tossed about as the sea' or however that goes. This will help me build myself up to whatever I choose is the correct way.

  • SEAKEN2001
    SEAKEN2001

    Good luck, truthseeker. I hope it goes well for you.

    You should know that taking several translations with you to the meeting will not help you. It may hurt your chances of remaining in the group. JW elders see that as confrontational and as evidence of disobedience to the organization who has provided you with the correct translation. Other translations can only be used to confirm what is already understood as truth by the Witnesses. Do not attempt to overturn their interpretations with alternate understandings. If you agree to let them do the teaching they will probably tolerate your "weird" ideas and allow you to remain in the fold. Just don't try to convince anybody else that your undertanding is more correct than the Organization. That is not allowed. Silence and "weakness" is tolerated. Knowledge and reasoning and thinking is not.

    Sean

  • silentlambs
    silentlambs

    I have read the comment made by truthseeker and it compels me to make a few remarks.

    1. If you are really wanting to seek the direction of the organzation then why are you frequenting these forums?? It would appear you have another agenda.

    2. I find your description of the senario a bit uncommon. Your wife leaves you and all that results is a visit by two in law's who arrive alone? This matter would immediately have attention from the elder body and they show up in two's.

    3. If you want to be JW that is a choice, you are welcome to it as well as those who may make other choices. Make your choice and stick with it. Airing all on this forum seems a bit suspect at best.

    4. Finally you wrote,
    "When I mentioned the child abuse stuff, he pulled out a letter written from the society explaining the procedure Elders are supposed to take when a child molester is found out in the Cong. It said that if a servent, his position is removed. Civil authorties ARE notified. Even if one person comes forward, this happens. When someone who has molested people in the past comes into the cong. they are told that their history is known and they are not to be seen interacting with children, not even hugging or letting them sit on their lap."

    I have a problem with the way this letter is presented and how misinformation is being given on this topic. First the letter you are referring to is the March 1997 BOE letter. You can read it on the silentlambs website under "WT letters." The first comment you made was, "When I mentioned the child abuse stuff, he pulled out a letter written from the society explaining the procedure Elders are supposed to take when a child molester is found out in the Cong."

    This letter was far more than a procedure letter. It was a direct contradiction of the 1-1-97 wt article that lead everyone to believe child molesters would never a positions of responsibility in the congregation. The BOE letter made clear provision for them to again be used subject to WT aproval. Did you miss the comment "individual are not to be quiried?" That comment alone allowed child molesters to not be questioned regarding their past.

    You said,
    "It said that if a servent, his position is removed."

    DUH! I think it would be reasonable to state that any person would lose privileges if they confessed to child molestation. What if he does not confess? What if it has been a long period of time since he molested? Can he then requalify? This letter made provision for that to happen.

    You said,
    "Civil authorties ARE notified. Even if one person comes forward, this happens."

    FOUL!!! Not so and in this comment you are revealed. At no place is this statement made in ANY BOE letter. This is a pure lie and purposely stated to misdirect those who read it. I encourage any who question the validity of this statement to read all the WT letters on this topic and try and find one shread of evidence to validate this statement. As Farkel mentioned authorities will be contacted only after consulting with Wt legal and ONLY if it is a required reporting state. There are 16 at this time that are reporting states. If you claim you read this statement then you have a conterfeit BOE letter. It was never written by WT. IF you did not then why are you making false statements about the child abuse issue??

    you wrote,
    "When someone who has molested people in the past comes into the cong. they are told that their history is known and they are not to be seen interacting with children, not even hugging or letting them sit on their lap."

    Again this is a complete misstatement. Only a person who has confessed or been convicted at the mouth of two credible eye witnesses will have a letter written regarding their past. If they lie or do not have the two credible eye witnesses then they are free to move where ever they wish and remain anonymous. For the confessed child molester the above statement applies in the context of the elders watching them only. The congregation is not informed at any time of the presence of a confessed child molester who may move in. We now know we have 23,720 confired JW molesters who are having letters written when they move, how many do you think there are that fall in to the latter catagory?

    For a person who appears to place so much emphasis on finding and keeping the "truth" why do you spend so much time with lies and misinformation? You appear to be something you are not.

  • lv4fer
    lv4fer

    Truth, You said that others made mistakes in the bible but Jehovah used them. Yes people do make mistakes but didn't make decisions that effect millions of people, nor did they claim to be Jehovahs Organization.

    Jehovah doesn't have one organization. That was done away with when his son Jesus Christ died for us, he then opened it up to everyone who believes in Jesus. That is what saves us, our faith in Jesus Christ not belonging to any one organization. I'm not saying that if you are a witness that you won't be saved because a lot of them do put faith in Jesus and it's between them and him.

    It's not easy to stay in an organization that controls your life and who you can and cannot talk to. They judge people as less than good associates based upon wether they agree with their interpretation of the bible. That is wrong because what they interpret today may be different tomorrow and maybe that person they judged adversely believed in what they now view as correct. Think for yourself don't let an organization do it for you.

    "The reward for conformity was that everyone liked you except yourself."

    Rita Mae Brown

  • noidea
    noidea

    While talking to a person in chat they were deeply troubled because when they expressed concerns on some issues the elders were very stern..they did not even address the issues only that the org. was directed by God and that because he even questioned the org. that Jehovah no longer would love or accept this person. Does that make the org. and God the same?

    We are told from the Bible to seek truth yet, when an individual attempts to do that they are considered weak and undeserving of God's love.. Where is the love and compassion in all of this? Isn't love suppose to be an identifying mark of God's servants? How can anyone put faith in an org that tells a person that if they seek truth they are undeserving of God's love?

    As far as the issue of child molestation I can confirm what Farkel said about the elders first checking with the WT legal department before it is even reported. Each state is different and the matter is handled depending on the state. I was faced with this issue and the primary concern of the elders was not to the victim but what the situation would do to the name of the org. if it were to get into the hands of the public. It's not an issue of protecting the children but an issue of protecting the name of the org. so as to not bring shame on them. The shame comes in when the children are cast to the side. How can any arrangement to save ones name before the protection of a child have the backing and direction of God?
    If you want to do what is right in the eyes of God then I suggest you not only look at the scandals that are covered over but also read the words from the bible..only then will you find your direction because man has none.

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