Wow.....
I have been buried with work the last week, off JWN and missed all this....
I get a lot of fading JWs wanting to have lunch, call, yak etc during the week. I think everyone has open wounds from WTBTS abuse...and can be a little touchy.
Lots of thoughtful points here from different ones. Personally I want to give KUDOS to ANYONE willing to devote the needed time to take on the mult-billion dollar WTBTS. Every little bit helps...but sometimes it takes a LONG time. MADD.. mothers against drunk driving...has changed laws in many states but many still drive drunk. Lung and Heart associations vs big tabacco....situation improved but people still smoke.
Facebook groups is a pain. Security/privacy settings change constantly.
I would like to suggest EVERYONE use a fake email account, a secondary Facebook profile, and CC cleaner if they NEED to surf the web in secret. Loyal JWs work at Yahoo and Google according to some active JW contacts in the Silicon Valley. A Valley friend was outed and Df'ed as a result.
As far as agreeing and disagreeing with EX-JWs..is not having FREEDOM of thought why we leave the BORG?