I think you put into words what a lot of us have been thinking Terry.
My Dad (RIP) was the PO of the cong. He said to me one day that some brothers 'teach' and others 'tell'. What I then started to spot was more 'telling' than 'teaching'! Watch out for that one JWs.
Remember, you lurking JWs, you're here because you are already on the road to leaving. That's why you are disobeying the GB and coming here.
Jehovah's Witnesses. Don't worry, unlike your conditional loving 'Brothers and Sisters(TM)'..........we've got your backs!