joyfulfader - It's a good idea to let well enough alone for the time being. Remind yourself of how much the "mother" organization encourages divisive behavior. In the "truth" we were (in our minds) separate from the world. Exemplary families are "united" in their service (as stewards). The culture supports shunning of those that aren't fully vested - even within families. Perhaps your sister believes that "the truth" is the only right way to live. Do you feel she should have been judicially disciplined? Being patient with your sister (and with your own transition) may be the positive approach to this difficult situation.