I've noticed that the cold, unloving, "if you aren't at the Kingdom Hall for every meeting, the only possible reason is that you are spiritually weak" attitude is permeating the literature, and our local BOE.
This precisely what let to my moment of clarity during a WT study. I had been staying with and tending to an ailing elderly mother, for 3 days, made it back early on a Sunday to "make" meeting, and the WT study was exactly like this. And while listening to the arrogant self righeous comments, a switch flipped in my head and I never went to another meeting again. I thought I was doing well to make it to the meeting, actually feeling good about it then to be greeted by this WT study and the accompanying comments made me feel I did not belong there and to get the hell out. And I did.
This is nothing new, it's the same thinking and drivel pounded out year after year. But maybe there is somebody else out there just like me who will realize no matter what you do, you are just a heartbeat away from disapproval and ultimate destruction in the JW mindset and will also get the hell out. I hope people realize they have value and are good no matter what the society says.