Three elders show up "to encourage me" after 10 years!

by Wasanelder Once 45 Replies latest watchtower scandals

  • JW GoneBad
    JW GoneBad

    Three elders show up at my front door unannounced to offer encouragement to me and one of them is a graduate from Missionary School For Couples; my first thought...'this graduate elder didn't learn much from his special training, did he'???

    Three grown adult males at anyone's from door...inappropriate behavior in my neck of the woods!

  • FayeDunaway
    FayeDunaway
    I can't believe they came to bug you after 10 years! Desperation?
  • Witness My Fury
    Witness My Fury
    It was probably a box ticking exercise. Right, who's next on the inactive / DA / DF'd list...?
  • The Searcher
    The Searcher

    I have been pretty sure for some months now that the Org is going to initiate a culling exercise - a McCarthy-type witch-hunt programme, to rid the Org of deadwood who neglect meetings, F.S., & assemblies, but crucially, are clearly not contributing financially to the local KH's money-grabbing operations!

    As a lawyer would advise his client - No comment, No comment, No comment, because there is always one low-life Elder in the pack of wolves who will pervert anything you say in order to get his prey!

    Avoid any conversations in future - at all costs.

  • stillin
    stillin

    I always include this disclaimer to my reasonings when speaking with an elder, "My opinions are my own. I don't feel that I need to share them with others in the congregation. I only express them to you because you are a mature older man and a "big tree" for me to get some shelter beneath. I don't recommend myself to others. I formed my opinions on my own and I respect the right of others to do the same."

    I hope this will continue to keep the apostate hunters off my back. Plus, it's true.

  • OzGirl
    OzGirl

    I use the skills that I learned from the Theocratic Ministry School and Service Meeting - how to evade answering a householder's questions. Now I use those same skills to evade answering questions from elders.

  • ToesUp
    ToesUp

    Anything you say CAN and WILL be used against you.

    Silence is the best answer. Don't give them the power!

  • menrov
    menrov

    Next time you can say "I am glad you came to my door as this is proof that I am now appointed as the FDS. I prayed for it, asked for the holy spirit to show me proof that I am now the channel through whom God is speaking. And there you are. It must be the hand of Jehovah"

  • sowhatnow
    sowhatnow
    so, if you were not a former elder what is the likelihood they would have shown up?
  • stuckinarut2
    stuckinarut2

    I love your response menrov!!

    Oh ask them to direct you to the "building site leak" at the same time...that will REALLY prove the Holy Spirit is directing you!

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