Reality check,..look at it this way.
Thoughts are very small electrical firings in a brain right?, hardly measurable at best. Now your "hardly measurable" thoughts are worried about your friends "hardly measurable thoughts". See where I'm going here?
These things really do not matter one iota once you realize that it is all based on a lie anyway.
You are one of the lucky ones that have figured it out, you made it out of the cage alive, don't look back at those still in wonder what they are thinking, it would be a waste of a good escape.
If you really want out wear a foil cap to the meeting. lol