Welcome angelface and I am sorry for what you must go through to awaken your husband and family. Many other members have made great comments so hopefully I will not repeat what they said. You should either PM stuckinamovement or read his threads such as http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/members/private/206294/3/Progress-I-think-in-helping-my-wife-to-see-the-truth about how he successfully awakened his wife. A key approach that stuckinamovement used was reading the Bible (especially the NT) with his wife without the WTBTS literature. Encouraging your husband to have a Bible night might help to convince your husband that you do not oppose Our Father (Jehovah = the WTBTS and then Our Father and Jesus Christ). Try to get your husband to read the Gospels and NT books without cherry-picking scriptures to understand what is written in the context in which it was written.
Try to get your family to meet more "Worldly" people, who they might like, and to plan fun non-JW family outings that your husband would love to do. Enroll your children in public schools and encourage your children to make "Worldly" friends so that you and your husband can form relationships outside the WTBTS. Ask your husband about going to non-JW events that he loves where he could meet "Worldly" people that he might like. The point is to disprove what the WTBTS states in their literature without saying a word of disagreement with the WTBTS.
You can also send your husband and family members anonymous emails like I wrote about in http://www.jehovahs-witness.net/watchtower/beliefs/211893/1/Youe28099ve-Got-Mail-TM as a low risk way of planting seeds in the minds of JWs, who you know.
Good-luck, be careful and discrete, go slow, and post about what you are feeling and your progess.
Peace be with you and everyone, who you know,