by JRK 22 Replies latest social relationships
Please help me understand the dynamics of it. How do you go from being intimate to becoming buddies? I have always been better at being a friend than being in a relationship. Maybe the flaw is mine. But I really do someday want to be in a committed relationship with someone. I just end up picking the emotionally unavailable. Sweet people, but not able to give of themselves.
Sorry, just going though a tough transition . . .
JK
Someone once told me that "my picker was broken." They were probably right.
JK
Jeezus JK..
Theres not much to say..The answer is in your post..
I`d say..
Pick up one of those Beautiful Guitars of Yours and Play..
Let it out..
......................;-)...OUTLAW
Outlaw,
Jesus, my guitar gently weeps, as do I.
JK
PS, thanks for not hitting me with the laughing dog.
Meh..
Not everything is funny..
This is a good time for you to..
Get back to Your Music..
If your like me..
You can "Find Yourself" there..
....................;-)...OUTLAW
Oulaw,
There is nothing funny in my life right now.
Music is a great diversion. Yeah rah MF er, it really doesn't help. I am doing a diservice to myself for putting my life out here to be ridiculed, but I have nowhere to go. I could put up a hugely ambiguated long motherfucking thread, with elipses, but that would be bullshit. All I want right now is for those who care about me as a friend to show me that friendship. I have reached out to others in the past. and I had them reciprocate with comments that wanted me to kill myself.
Jk
Who says you have to become friends? You have a choice in this too. If you don't feel like becoming friends ( or rather becoming her emotional tampon without sexual benefits), tell her to get lost.
Sorry, JK.
Just a friend who cares here, without anything to say except hoping that things get better soon.
Namaste
Jeff
It's complicated.
You are a good, loyal person JK. Know that.
Sending peace your way.
