I had the same feeling when I watched my eldest get baptized at about 15. My heart just sank and I was awakened to how many doubts I had. Just when he was entering a time when normal teens question, act out, and seek their independence, he would be disfellowshiped for those normal actions and I would have to shun him! That was never going to happen, I knew it in my very being. Fortunately, we all got out, not without initial guilt and loss.
And I have to make a comment about the term "wifey." I happen to personally find it demeaning and condescending and hope something more dignified can be found so describe wives!