I appreciate the comments and I'm not sure if this confused anyone or not but she didn't ask me for permission to kiss him. She was asking, if she would have kissed him would I be mad?
And I know I made it sound like she wants to be with him too but I really don't think she's looking for someone else.
Basically, I think this. Since there aren't too many people in the program she's in she was obviously looking for someone to hang out with. She started talking to this guy, fully intent on just making a new friend. But the more she talked to him, the more he began to like her, and she began to develop a small crush. I don't think she has any intention of being with him though.
Now, she's scared to death I'm going to leave her. Honestly, she is the sweetest, most kind girl in the world, we've had a flawless relationship before this and I would hate to leave her. Rebel8, I definitely plan on doing that tonight.