Okay, here's some background information.
My girlfriend is in a program at a college about 30 minutes away. She can only come home on the weekends and I usually go over once a week to visit. There is a guy there that she hangs out with quite a bit, she's mentioned how he is really nice and funny. Sure, I was a little jealous at first but I didn't let her know that. But she was hanging around him so much that another person in the program thought something was going on between them. After that, I told her it bothered me a little that she was hanging out with him so much that somebody thinks that something is going on. She repeatedly told me that he is only a friend and nothing will happen.
Now, this is where the problem really starts. The other day she told me that the guy she has been talking to told her he has feelings for her. When she was telling me this, she also said she developed a small crush on him but tried to make it seem like it's not a big deal. I got upset and we talked a little and eventually she asked this. "Would you be mad if we kissed?" I told her I would. Then she said that they didn't. But what's worrying me is, why would she ask that in the first place? I asked her a few times if they did and she said no. I plan on asking again because something doesn't feel right.
Now, I am really worried because this fall I'll be going three hours away for college. She's only 30 minutes away and I feel like our relationship is falling apart. If our relationship even makes it through the summer, what the hell is going to happen in the fall?
I just needed to tell someone this because there isn't really anyone I feel like telling this to in real life. Thanks.