Mad Sweeney: It is FOR THIS very non-emotional advice that I have come to write this. Loved the expression "Cold Turkey"
I am not an elder anymore....I "gave up" all my "privileges" four years ago and do the "1 hour time slip"-game (so technically i am NOT inactive, just missing meetings, and having these long winded conversations with my wife that lead no-where and make me tired...she says that she needs to hold on to "save me".
...just the other day i told her that I don't need to get saved! That, if Jehovah wants to kill me to do it RIGHT AWAY, to JUST PULL THE TRIGGER...he would do me a greater favor than menacing me for years with Armaggedon.
No, I don't have relatives that aren't Witnesses.....they all are. Only a few very old aunts, that have distanced themselves from the family and have no relationship with any of us for decades.....
.....sad. I have no family. Just started to build my "base" of non-Witness friends....but only 2 of them are genuine, because they know that I was a Witness....every other friend...well I "fake" things, put up a "mask", simulate that I just had my birthday or that Christmas this year was wonderful...so they don't know the REAL ME!!!