Indeed, as Inkie says, the question is "to whom" and the answer is to Jesus.
Ephesians 5:23 (New International Version)
23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.
1 Peter 2:4-8 (New International Version)
The Living Stone and a Chosen People
4 As you come to him, the living Stone—rejected by men but chosen by God and precious to him— 5 you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. 6 For in Scripture it says:
"See, I lay a stone in Zion,
a chosen and precious cornerstone,
and the one who trusts in him
will never be put to shame." 7 Now to you who believe, this stone is precious. But to those who do not believe,
"The stone the builders rejected
has become the capstone," 8 and,
"A stone that causes men to stumble
and a rock that makes them fall." They stumble because they disobey the message—which is also what they were destined for.
Sure, you want to meet with the rest of the body, the other living stones but first you need grafting in :)
Blessings,
Stephen