@Yknot: godd night Yknot ^_^ and about the dating him thing, i am not gonna break it off with him,. i wil lgive him a chance, i know ir sounds wrong, but i want to follow what i belive is right in my heart, and i dont think just sending him off without a good reason is a mistake also, i know, i have a lot to learn, but even if we did break up, we would stil ltalk to each other so either way, it's okay with me! just long as nothing comes between us ^_^
and i wil lsleep well tonight ^_^
EDIT:@rosepetal: well, thanks for the critsizism...and advice, and there's a lot of reasons why parents let their children have freedom over the internet, one they want to feel trusted, and plus, even if the parents were VERY strict like some in my family, they would still do it anyway, just behind their backs. so either way, they're going to do it.
my mom DOES watch me, i be doing more than just chatting, i make vids a lot, so i go back and forth watch youtube videos, multitasking, i just don't do one thing.
however, you are right, but he lives very far from me so i doubt he could travel over :P and even if he did, he would have to be at my house.
@ people who thinks my mom doesn't protect me: my mom is protective of me, she trusts me, don't any of you see that? she DOES protect me. just because it's not the way you guys do it, doesn't mean she doesn't protect me and trust me. nobody's perfect, people do things differ from other people.
Also, i am a good kid, so i have been told, i mean, i would never like sneak out or anything like that, my mom trust me and i trust her. plus, my mom ALWAYS talk to the people i talk to now before i EVEN can consider them friends, she makes sure my friends aren't pedos, (if they're my online buddies.) and this include females i talk to online also, not just the males. so she KNOWS what i am doing. you guys jump conclusions sometimes..>_> but i do like you all still lol so i can't complain. but please, don't blame my mother. we all trust one another, and also, she is a single parent. Yes, it is hard to belive that she allows me this access to the internet, but she DOES supervise me, it may not be the way you guys would do it, but she does supervise me on computer. i kid you not.
yes, i know cyber dating/chatting is dangerous, why do you think i don't mind my mom talking to my peeps on the phone from online?Her sixth sense is stronger than mine at most costs. and about the dating issue, i am not going to call it off unless there is a very good reason to.(no,cyber dating isn't a good enough reason to call it off, i already know what i need to know about him. and so far, there hasn't been any false identification, i asked him trick questions just to make sure. so i know he wasn't or isn't lying. however, i will still keep a good eye on what i am doing and him too and everyone else of who i talk to online.
again, i appreciate people who cares a lot about this, although you guys critisized me a little, at least i know there's plenty of people who cares.
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@mad Dawg: yes, he could be pretending to be 40, that happens in most cases. and thanks for not bashing me, i guess you can't have fairytales and realioty coming at you at the same time, wanting them both.
@AGuest: (just a guest??) Your right, i am taking this a little too fast. i do have my years to go..if we are ever going to last that long aha. but to be on the real side, you are right. also, that is why i don't want to become a JW early at my age, i feel if i rush that also, i would miss out on everything (not anything bad like rebellious things, but you know, being a kid, not that i have a problem becoming one or anything , i just don't want that to be rushed also) because belive it or not, when parents rush their kids (i'm talking on the parents side this time) to become a JW or something other than that, some of their kids may become disfellowshipped. not trying to say that all parents or kids are like that. but that sometimes happens.Which i sometimes belive that's why my mom isn't too restrictive on my cases.She wants me to enjoy my time as a youth. she wants me to let me have my own privacy because not to be rude or anything..but...if my mom was restrictive on all of my cases in my life, we wouldn't be very close like we are now, sorry if this is kind of rude (i wasn't intended to be rude,but sorry if this is offensive to some people) but just imagine, mom and daughtyer in a same house, not speaking to each other..that would kind of be creepy and sad a bit.
but Aguest, you are right, i only have one life, and life is what you make it.
@Black Sheep: oh my...O_O um..okay, Thank you for the information on this.
(oh, and sorry that i couldn't post this in another response, i'm kind of at my limit.)
