Good point indeed, elderelite. It would seem the "headship arrangement" is the product of imperfection. Woman went from completing man to being dominated by him. I don't hear many JW men complaining about this arrangement...
The first rule of power is that all those who have it, are afraid to lose it.
@WTwizard, I agree with your thoughts on headship and its expression as well. I always envision perfect headship as being more of a looking out for the well being off those you are taking "headship" over, not a deciding everything and expecting all to go along with it. Headship doesn't, IMHO, require making every decision or even most decisions. thats not desirable on any level. It stifles the talents and gifts that others have. Who benefits from that?