TROUBLED MIND- So are you prepared for the possibilities that may play out here within your family situation ? Is your husband going to support your stand if they decide to DF you in absentia if you don't attend the JC meeting ? Or will he sympathize with his and your JW relatives shunning you ?
Are you content in your own mind to just let them DF you with no appeal ? Or does it not really matter to you at this point how JW relatives react ? I'm just painting different hypothetical scenarios and questions to mull over as I've been exactly in this situation over 3 years ago after not attending for 4 years previous to that time. Just some things to consider. Each person's situation is different . I wish you the best but your party may NOT have reached it's climax just yet. The fallout can be challenging, believe me. Hang in there, Peace out, Mr. Flipper