what does no sex mean?

by brainwashed-from-birth 30 Replies latest jw friends

  • cameo-d
    cameo-d

    Maybe it's the flouride in the water?

    Maybe he is taking some kind of meds that affect his libido?

    Maybe he is viewing "stuff" to try to get his game back?

  • zagor
    zagor

    Re: what does no sex mean?

    Are they witnesses too? For a witness that would mean tucking his tool into his own pocket and not someone else's.

    Other than that its really something they have to work out for themselves, if you are true friend to her that's really what you have to do, i.e. not fill her mind with your ideas beyond encouraging her to work it out with him. Though being a guy I doubt he can go without a "pressure release" longer than a week. Now why he finds his hand more appealing than his wife's vagina would probably have more to do with his psychological state. I guess if she saw him browsing porn compulsively then maybe he is battling something from his past or something, at least that what experts say.

  • sooner7nc
    sooner7nc

    "Maybe you should just let them work it out and MYOB"

    Asking us for the sake of asking is ok, but don't let it go any further.

  • sooner7nc
    sooner7nc

    To answer your question, there are at least 2 possibilities.

    (1) He has some sort of hidden problem obviously. Could be cheating. Could be psychological. Could be a hundred things

    (2) She's a major league pain in the ass and he's too lazy to leave. Don't laugh, it happens fairly frequently I beleive.

  • foolsparadise
    foolsparadise

    Tell her to buy a dildo shes comfortable with and end of story............

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    Stagnation. Is one or both partners stuck in a stagnation rut? In the absence of physical malfunction, this is the most likely cause of lack of interest in things that used to be exciting--and the Establishment would like you to try its dangerous Paxil and Prozac so they can go on keeping you in this rut (and ruin your brain and your liver in the process).

  • yadda yadda 2
    yadda yadda 2

    Major alarm bells should be ringing for her. He is probably secretly gay (bi) or has some other serious issue he is hiding. She should dump this guy immediately and move on, even if she loves him.

  • Twitch
    Twitch

    uhh, why do you need advice?

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Either he's just not into her for sex or they're just friends with occasional benefits. If he doesn't have a problem with how things are now and she's feeling hurt and neglected she should seriously think about whether he's really the guy for her. Sex isn't everything but when you're not getting enough it seems like it is.

  • RubaDub
    RubaDub
    what does no sex mean?

    Living in Tiger Woods house.

    Rub a Dub

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