me = ubm, married to devout jw, two kids 1DFed, 1in. both college educated. im very proud of that. i never believed the crap. we don't talk aout it. thats the solution. not a great one, but its what happens. my wife is a smart, compassionate,wondeful woman. i love her more than anything. i am hopeful for a favorable outcome. cause otherwise i would have nothing to hold on to. and that just wont work. i do social stuff with the witnesses so thats not a problem, but if asked. (and i NEVER am). i would say how i feel. my wife understands that and it makes her nervous. sometime we can joke about our differences, not enough for me. i would love to have an open discussion, but i think she feels its like an attack. which it is (not aginst her, but she cant seperate. so.. there we are..
ohh and i love this place BTW