This is huge (to me). My wife won't clink glasses. She won't watch anything R-rated or any shows/movies with a mystical or religious theme or undertone. She told me that she was going to a funeral for a premature baby that died at one-week old. The mother of the baby went through a college training session for about a year with my wife, we were invited to her wedding but only went to the reception hall because the wedding was in a Catholic church.
I stopped my wife when she first said, "The funeral is at XYZ Catholic Church." I asked, "Are you going to that?"
Well, she answered as if I were a JW judging her. "It's for her baby. People need to be there for her."
I told her "I am not judging you. I think it's great that you are going."
So, she went. She had little to say about it, but diffused any discussion of the Catholic part of the whole thing by talking about the mother and about the baby.
Still, huge to me.