I used to watch my parents faces when the sister on the stage (giving an experience) would relate that she had 6 children who are "ALL FAITHFULLY SERVING JEHOVAH. Two are missionaries over in East Bumble, One is a Circuit Overseer, One a District Overseer and two are serving at Bethel." As the Church Lady used to say..."well isn't that special."
I have a sibling that decided this religion was not for them and left. My Mother used to cry when these experiences were told. Why? Because they ALWAYS blame the parents. Even if you did everything right but a child decides (as an adult) that this is no longer what they believe. Why are some elders removed when an 18 year old decides this is not for him or her? Because it's ALWAYS the parents fault. This is how these Bastards make people feel. Maybe if it happened to them they would be able to muster up some compassion.
They could care less...it's all about how wonderful THEY are!