I would like some advice. Some of you know that me and Mrs Anti just had our first child (girl). Okay here is the problem. I did not think I would have to deal with the in-laws right away about the education of our little girl. I believe that we would have to deal with this later when she will be old enough to understand certain things, I guess I was wrong. This past weekend we had a family BBQ and everything was going okay until it was time for the prayer. It was time to feed the baby but she was distracted by all the commotion outside so we went indoors to feed her. Mother in-law was asking how long before we were ready for the prayer, I said I did not know and they should start with out us. She said well it's important to us that you be there, I said what ever you want if you want to wait go a head cause I don't know how long it will take. They decided to start with out us. When we were ready to go outside and eat well I see my mother in-law crying and talking to my brother in-law. She is already an emotional wreck, she is married to a verbally abusive alcoholic sexist racist pig of a husband who is also a JW ( not my wife's father, he died when she was 9). Later on in the evening she make a comment about how we are not doing enough for the baby, there are more important things then a good education and being loving parents (we all know what that means).
Well here is my question, I did not want to have the "talk" with them about how we are going to raise our little girl right now, I wanted to wait for the best time but now it seems that no mater what we are going to do we are going to break my mother in-law's hart. So should I just forget about it and ignore them when they imply that we should raised our child in the Watchtower corp. or should I tell them strait up that there is no chance in hell for that to ever happen so don't keep your hopes up. I would like your input.