As a non jw.... what doesn't anger me about the wt? or you could catch me in a wish-washy day and instead ask me what I don't 'pity' about those stuck in the jw's. In general I would say the pedophile issue and general unloving attitude bother me the most. As a ubm I would say it is difficult to live with someone who thinks you deserve to be dead (even if they will not verbalize it, their literature does). The stories here and on all ex jw boards sometimes brings me to tears, the childhoood stories, df stories, family, abuse, etc..etc..etc....... just shameful.
Sometimes some ex jw's seem to excuse the behavior of jw's as 'doing the best they knew how'. I, at times can only shake my head at that because sometimes I don't think being 'sincere' or 'doing the best you know' is enough. The are 'nice' people, and so forth. Not good enough, not when innocent chidren are involved. Yes, children are incrediblly resilent but that doesn't mean they should suffer at the hands of fruitcakes, no matter how 'sincere' they are. To see so many families destroyed and not only for today but for genrerations! The wts has much to answer for. I think people forget that the shunning will affect generations not only their personal life. I grieve for all of them (you).