i hope this breaks your heart

by chickpea 40 Replies latest social family

  • chickpea
    chickpea

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prDOWbeXRKM

    my family is in a nascent period of adapting to our child's
    revelation that he is an FTM transgendered person.....

    above all else he is still just a person.....

    it is a scary reality that the majority of the world
    will hate him without cause, without even knowing him

    simply because of ignorance

    that breaks my heart

  • insearchoftruth
    insearchoftruth

    Chickpea,

    It does, and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Society does a terrible job of accepting folks for who they are or who they want to be, and you made the key point, he is still a person regardless, and for that reason alone, is due the respect and love that everyone else is.

    ISOT

  • White Dove
    White Dove

    I long for the day when they will all be accepted no matter what or who they are. Because they are people, they should be accepted.

  • burningbridges
    burningbridges

    THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING THAT WITH US!!! I am going to email that to as many friends as i can and ask them to pass it on.

    PLEASE EMAIL IT FROM YOUTUBE TO OTHERS PLEASE, FOR CHICKPEA AND HER SON, LETS DO THIS AND SPREAD THE KNOWLEDGE.

    BURNING

  • str8?so is spaghetti..until you heat it up
    str8?so is spaghetti..until you heat it up

    Oh chickpea.

    This does break my heart.

    I offer you my sincerest and warmest affection and love.

    You are amazing for sharing this with us.

    If I can ever (though I don't know how) EVER be of some sort of assistance to you I would love to be.

    For Now:

    Much, Much Love

    Your Friend

    Rob

  • only me
    only me

    All we can do is fight the ignorance when we find it.

    I have a loved one who is trans but for health reasons cannot make the change from male to female. It is very difficult for him, he is married to a wonderful girl who says she will stay with him even if he makes the change because she loves him for who he is, not whether he is male or female.He is very lucky to have some friends and family who care, so many of these beautiful souls don't have anyone to turn to for understanding.

    Sending much positivity to your family and to your son in particular.

  • JK666
    JK666

    (((((((((((((((((chickpea and child))))))))))))))))))

    May the world someday open its collective mind.

    JK

  • chickpea
    chickpea

    it is their faces... young people with old sad eyes
    that have see the world at its very worst....
    unthinking, uncaring, selfish, cruel

    yes yes YES please send the link to as many people as you care to....
    one can never know what causes an epiphany in some people's minds

    i appreciate very much the kind words of support...
    ((((grouphug))))

  • BlackPearl
    BlackPearl

    I'm sorry, but I don't know what "FTM" means. BP

  • chickpea
    chickpea

    FTM is a designation to describe a person who is considered a Female to Male transgendered person

    MTF is male to female

    current science is supporting the theory that in fetal development the brains of transgendered people
    receive a different hormonal cue than their bodies, hence they are born with a biological identity that
    does not correlate with their mental identity..... they are trapped in a body that does not fit their mental
    construct of who they are

    gender issues differ radically from orientation

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