funner and funner!
I miss read this as "funnier and funnier," which is also true.
How have other people overcome the inhibitions and issues that come from the ridiculously rigid sexual mindset of the WTBS?
Well, I had to do it the hard way: even before I left the Spoof, I saw the necessity to question everything I believed. Literally everything. Sexual exclusivity was one of the things that fell by the wayside.
I just hate how sick and panicky I feel everytime we're intimate at all, and I'm talking just kissing, let alone anything more advanced. He and I have talked about it and he's been very supportive and loving but I still can feel the anxiety.
I also, from time to time, felt it useful and refreshing to go out and "earn myself another disfellowshipping" -- without hurting anybody. That is, anything short of murder, fraud, rape, etc. maybe this idea will be of some use to you: "I am not sinning against the Creator of Love, Sex, and All Things Juicy; I am giving pleasure to a good man and putting distance between myself and a poisonous cult."
I'm one of those that believes it should be a committed relationship. ...no one night stands... But that's MY BELIEF
Basically, I agree: I've done both, and I prefer committed relationships -- because they are more nourishing and MORE FUN. One-night stands can indeed be disappointing -- not in the Victorian-drama sense -- just frustrating. It's up to the individual to decide whether it's better than enforced celibacy.