Oh, she's from Arkansas. Say no more. I thought this whole thing had the flavor of Jerry Springer. Now I know.
Adultery of a JW
by hurt by JW 44 Replies latest social relationships
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sweetface2233
Whoa, I understand being scorned and everything, but posting her full name and location isn't cool.
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Dorktacular
There are crazy women out there. Your husband knows she's crazy, you know she's crazy. Now, ignore her. Extenuating circumstances aside, your husband knew what he was doing when he did it. So did the woman he did it with. If it was a moment of weakness, then so be it. If you really want to repair your relationship, focusing on this crazy woman isn't going to work. She's not worth the emotional effort. Ignore her and focus on eachother. And, if she doesn't stop harrassing your husband or yourself, press charges. Call the police and ask for their advice. If their is something that they can do within the limitations of the law, then have them do it. It's not really that complicated.
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lisavegas420
this thread certaintly took a strange turn.
lisa
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White Dove
No, it does not condone adultry or sex outside of marriage. She sounds like a nymphomaniac. Double life, for sure. She wants the best of both worlds but may believe that all non-JW's are sex maniacs, too and will pull it out for a dime. I'm guessing that it's partly the restraints of that religion and mostly her that messed her up. She's choosing this path, though. I'd turn her in to her elders.
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White Dove
Turn her in to her elders and get a restraining order for protection. Remember Amy Fisher? Protect yourself and your family! Yes, and grow some balls, for christ sake.
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White Dove
You both are being stalked, and if I'm correct, that is illegal in most states. You can get a PFA (protection from abuse) on stalkers. They started to crack down on them harder than they used to when the My Sister Sam actress was stalked and killed. It's taken very seriously in most states now.
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White Dove
Pardon me. I posted the above before I read all of the posts.
The way you wrote at first told me that you wanted to do anything but revenge to make her understand. You wanted to reason with her. You made yourself sound weak. You must be strong and give her what for but in the right way.
All of us agree that you need to get a PFA after turning her in to the elders. You balked at that saying that it wouldn't be a nice thing to do. That made me mad.
We are here for you, but you have to be willing to do your part.
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mouthy
I am at the ??????????stage.....Cant believe all this! sorry/ If your a Baptist miss: then go to the Kingdom Hall & tell the elders there your tale.
I am a very stupid woman BUT I dont swallow tall tales.
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Velvetann
I am with you Mouthy, I read this thread this morning, missed it last week.
I am totally confused???????? Shelly wants help and then says no to the help and says this forum is not nice to her.
The obvious thing to do would be to report her to the Elders if she is a JW. Some people may go to meetings but are not JWs.
Thats my 2 cents, but Shelly may have left us.