5thGen, I don't see anything good coming out of deception here.
As an alternative to complete, open honesty, may I suggest merely refusing to discuss the subject of why you are not attending meetings?
IF you are not involved in activities that will cause you to be DFed, I see no reason why you should bring up your doubts and issues about the org. That leads down a street with only one exit. Questions will arise, your doubts will be trivialized and explained away, and when you don't accept the explanations it's JC time.
Don't provide material to use against you. Plead the 5th... why should you incriminate yourself?
"I'm not going to meetings right now, I don't want my kids to go to meetings, please respect my wishes."