I have worked at a place full of socially respectable regarded women. And you would be amazed at which ones went to a ladies night with muscular long schlong male strippers and had them sat naked on their knee!! Imagine if respectable males had done similar and said it was a laugh? They passed it off as just a laugh and once you have seen one you've seen them all. It was their talking point and excitment for weeks! Tell me they would have paid and got all hot over a bunch of Mr nice guys with average/small weenies and average/overweight bods. It proves that females want a Mr reliable to be a lifelong slave (who then neglects himself due to over-responsibility) but when it comes to being hot in the sack they can't help themselves when guys they would never think of marrying become available for a secret fling. So Mr nice gets the boredom in the sack treatment plus they go ape-shit if Mr nice aint done the dishes when they get home.
So the woman is brought up largely expecting males to do the fighting, bring home the bacon when kids are on the way, go to war to die when war is in the air, be an excellent role model to the children, share household chores, work for a better lifestyle, provide the 'magic' of little girl world she enjoyed or missed out on as a child and in some cases be forever grateful she lets you in the bedroom coz she can go out any time and find a male with a bigger schlong! All these attitudes mix up to intimidate the male into feeling inferior in his own wifes bed whether he bursts his gut getting there or not. So if the wife is off his wedding tackle it's no wonder males contemplate a hot night with a woman who may appreciate them despite having trouble believing it. A guy who feels like this has one cruel wifey who doesn't really care about her man!!.
Many women display social excitement toward the real centre of attention hot male who won't take any crap from anyone and learns how to play a crowd coz so many have gathered round all his life he's gotten used to it. The fact that this is no indication of a Mr Nice is irrelevant - that guy is the one needed back home to do exactly as he's told by them when it suits. Society has conditioned women to expect this. It's the old two man trick. Get one man to do as he's told, and the naughty boy can be the secret pet store owner - full of pussy.
So mothers - have you already pigeon holed your baby sons? Are you already bringing them up to be the next generation Mr walkover - work his butt off, or do you have the centre of attention individual whom you know is gonna get chased by the ladies? Life is so predictably genetic! Granted there are ways to accomplish other things but life is so predictably genetic. And you ladies seem to keep slaging off males and branding them prison material for going anywhere near your own pschologies!