At times it will be hard to not get sucked in because my hubby and I do absolutely everything together. We are pathetically clingy! It's hard for either of us to do boys or girls nights because all we do is call eachother. Sickening, I know. As I've said before, i don't think I will every compromise who I am, especially with something that I know will bring more hurt than help for my husband. One day, hopefully, he will see what this has done to him.