My main regret? I'm still a virgin. (page 4)

Bumble Bee

I got spare inflatable dolls. PM me if interested. Note: They are unused.

I guess we'd know for sure they were unused if the seal wasn't broken . BB

First of all, I want to applaude you for your self-control while in the Borg. I did my best to be a good little boy, but urges were overwhelming. I got married young to a hot little sista to get me some of that guilt free. But we did do it before the wedding, and felt guilty for years!

I realize that you now feel like a freak being out in "the world" with no sexual experience. Being able to date normally is something that you are pretty unprepared for. So I will give you a few tips.

When I met the woman that I am with now 4 years ago, I explained to her that I am a lot like dating an Amish person. Some things that she takes for granted I have never done. Like vote, have a flag, have a birthday party, celebrate Christmas and Easter, and more importantly date like a normal person.

If you are looking for a relationship, most women would be understanding of your dilema. Some would enjoy the opportunity to be your first. So don't obsess too much.

If you just want some action instead of a relationship, you had better figure out a few things. Rent or buy some porno and see some of the positions that you might encounter. (Just a hint, you will not pull out and shoot on her face, that is only in the movies!) Just remember that in the real world oral is good, and anal is not going to happen if she is not kinky.

Good luck my brother, now go get some!

JK

R.F.

Orgull, no need for regrets; you should be proud of yourself.
R. F., you said:
I was engaged to get married up until 2 months ago and now on the verge of leaving the JW religion, and it was pretty difficult to remain a virgin. It still is right with even more temptation out there now. I do hope though that I still am a virgin on the day I get married, if I ever come accross the right person.
You will come across the right person, and happy will she be!!!

Thanks snowbird. And how right I hope you are.

Tyrone van leyen

Hey Orgull. There but before the grace of god go I. When I was 19 I did something incredibly outrageous and lost my virginity to a hooker as a witness. I then went on a six year rampage and sexfest. My brother kept his virginity and lived at home till 30. Your situation is all too common. I made mistakes in that I should never have told anyone and now It doesn't mattter anymore so I tell you and anyone else who wants advice. I like Nathans advice the best. I think you are at an age where you can handle this much better and avoid the ridiculous repercussions. Do it man! Explore. Don't feel guilty. Don't let it all pass you by. It is your time and you will find your way. Keep your mouth shut, and remember, everyone does it and your a great dude.

Crumpet

Crumpet could solve your dilemma virtuallyovernight.
Huh...she's got a web-cam then?

haha my reputation preceeds me. I do have a webcam, but its not used for lewd purposes surprisingly. And I havent deflowered anyone for a very long time!!! Orgyll I do really feel for you.

Anyone else leave "the truth" as a virgin? Anyone go on a delicious spree of promiscuity after you left?
Man I don't even know how to approach the idea of dating someone who's not a JW. I need some time to

I left at 16 and I only lost my virginity so I could mention fornication at my judicial. That has to be one of the worst reasons for losing virginity on a one night stand to a complete stranger in he history of mankind. But anyway. After that I didnt have sex again until I was 18 as I knew I wasnt ready to at 16. And yes at 18 I went on a spree of promiscuity - I wouldn't call it delicious, although I have absolutely no regrets at all. I was glad of the experience. And I would be so regretful now if I hadnt sown some wild oats. I can understand for a man it might seem much more difficult. But remember women are much more liberated. We do not expect the man to dominate in the bedroom all the time. And sex isn't hard really. You just do what feels right and stop what doesn't. I would probably find a dating site and learn to flirt a bit first. Make friends with women you find attractive and who are attracted to you and then just be open about your virginity. I only wish I was closer. Feel free to PM for ANY advice. This is my favourite subject after all and the only thing apart from Homer Simpson lately that can raise a smile..

TwentyYearsOut

"This above all: to thine own self be true"

Don't pretend to be anyone else. You'll eventually find the right woman who will love you for who you are.

In the mean time, don't stay at home all night watching TV. Get out of the house and start doing something!

How about baby steps first. Try adult education courses in the evenings. A great way to expand your mind and meet new people.

Are you kidding?
Half my hall and more than half of my family thinks I'm secretly gay, the miserable shites. In the truth or out, I have no interest in men. But try to convince rabidly stupid people of something's non existence and you might as well just give up and die.
How could I be gay? I don't even dress well. Sheesh.

Oh my God- was that even necessary? All gay men must be good dressers! That's hate speech!

...Although I must say i am a amazing dresser. Like nobody can throw a combination of a snazzy blazer and the right tie together like I can.

BFD, I'll come help you dress. Or undress. Either one, buddy.

Little Drummer Boy

LOL at W.A.C.

Ya I get it. It was good to.

My main regret? I'm still a virgin.

Bumble Bee

JK666

R.F.

Tyrone van leyen

Crumpet

TwentyYearsOut

ninja

DannyHaszard

saywhat29

Little Drummer Boy

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