I'm right there with you man. I left as a virgin the first time. Then I went back because I met a witness that I wanted to date. Then when we had sex I got DFd for it. Imagine 32 years of virginity then one slip up and pow! DFd! Definitely don't waste another second not having sex. You've been robbed of your sexuality. You will probably go through guilt once you do it. Don't freak out. It's just your programing. Just keep doing it as much as possible and the guilt goes away. I have a hard time getting laid myself. We should get together and cruise chick and compare notes. Don't waste time getting into a community outside the borg. When you have a circle of friends then you might get a girlfriend in that circle. I'm working on one from my community right now. Better yet, go to Burning Man. If you can't get laid there you're really lost. Get to fuckin'!