Shazard wrote: I am lucky to have proffession which is higly required in my country and in the modern world in general, thanks to God. I am system analyst - computer programmer!
Sorry but I don't think 'God' is the one to thank - if you have a highly required/regarded profession, it's most likely because you got an education. Thank the people who encouraged you and made that possible.
Junction-Guy wrote: it's possible that I might be barred from getting insurance due to my pre-existing conditions.
I was surprised to learn that for the last several years, at least in California, there is no more 'pre-existing condition' clause in insurance policies - especially group insurance policies provided by employers. Before resigning yourself to a life and location that you are not happy with, make a few calls. Employment Development Department in the state you would like to move to may be a good start. Also, try the Insurance Commissioners office and Employment Agencies as well. I don't know if it's just a California thing or if it's a nationwide situation. You may not have the hindrances you think you do.
VirgoChik: I think you told me what industry you are in. If that's true, I have two friends that worked there for many years. About 4 years ago they each left and they have much less stress than ever. One has an entirely new career which she loves and the other works at a simple job that she enjoys and with incredibly nice, supportive, appreciative people.
If you really think you are in danger of losing your job, you may want to start working with a career counselor or at least an employment agency to assess your skills and get your resume in order. You may consider taking a class or two to brush up or learn new skills that will help make you more marketable.
I would not recommend using up your savings. I did that. Quit my job while depressed and no desire to look for work. When the savings was nearly gone I started working at temp jobs. 7 months later I applied for and got a full-time position and tried to start re-building my savings and get my life back on track. Within a year I had a cancer diagnosis and was in treatment for 2 years while trying to work and hold on to the little job I had. Point being: Don't tap into the savings until you really *have* to. Save it for true emergencies. If you find yourself out of work, even a temp job can help you meet expenses until you find regular employment.
I truly hope things work out in your favor - whichever way that is. Sometimes a forced change is the best thing that can happen to a person.
-Denise.
