k, well here's what happened to my pioneer days.
Got baptized, immediately started aux. bacause the pressure of "pioneering now that you're babtized" crap started. I was still in school, but was encouraged to get a job at Wendy's to pay for the aux. pioneer since my parents didn't have money and us teens need to "give" back to our parents.
So here I was at 17
Going to school, working a job and aux. the rest of little time I had left. I had a major "burnout". I did make it through my senior year but I quit both my job and aux. I had became anemic.
Got married 19... was pressured (mainly from my parents and the elders) to pioneer since I wasn't working. I went into a deep depression and quit the pioneering about 7 months into it. In the past they had announced the ones that had pioneered for a long time as quiting for personal reasons but since they had put in so much time...blah, blah, blah... blah. They "announced" me not as a pioneer as if I was disfellowshipped (which was horrible for me at the time). That was about 14 years ago, that is when I became "weak" with everyone around me because I wasn't going to the meeting regular...and I was only putting in my 2 hours of field service for the month. And for the last 6 years of being a Dub, I had put in fake reports just to keep the elders off my but.