ninertriplezero- I hope you find some things that you can you can take and put to use. You sound like a caring husband.
Amy-I tell you what when you are ready to tell your story, there are so many here that have experienced date rape. Most not getting any justice as you seemed to have gotten a little. Actually no matter what I think in cases like this it never is just for nobody can take back what happened. I am looking forward to getting to know you a bit.
slimboyfat- You sound like you have thought about this. I did have to laugh when you said "the bad apostates." Perhaps you meant more outspoken people. Do you know a lot of people here do not like the label of apostate. It is a term that the JW's slapped on us and make it sound so torrid. Actually from what I can tell it was twisted a bit. Anyhow, you really should not believe all you read. Do keep in mind though there is some pretty outlandish things that happened to a lot of us. At this point, there is so much true stuff, that I bet a lie can not compare to the craziness of the truth of the situations. Nice to meet you.
press any key- Well what a bit in your favor that your wife left too. That makes it so much easier. Welcome to paradise!
Witchettygrub- Hlad you jumped in. Shows some spunk!