Hmmm.....so you are not a part of the radical muslims or any of that wacky shit, eh? It's a good thing, this sounds bad enough:
My husband in the meantime - keeps pressuring me to either stick with my Islamic vows
How dare he. **IF** you choose to believe in God, your relationship with God is between you and GOD. This alone should tell you that you don't have Muslim Freedom anymore than you had Christian Freedom.
Many of us are without normal family relationships because of the JW religion. The difference between me and you is that I've come to accept that it is the decision of my parents whether or not they want a relationship, and it's not my call. No different with your son. He's only doing what you taught him.
Time is the enemy of the Jehovah's Witness organization. Your son WILL come around but it will take time. What JGnat said. In the meantime, try to figure out why you need the STRUCTURE of an ordered religion, and why your husband "aka your best friend" feels that pressuring you is a good thing to do.
Take the Welcome sign off your back, Muslima. You've been walked on enough.
Lisa