Sure the Elders are to tell others what to do, but they are of God
Oh Elizabeth you are in for a major disappointment if you go around putting your faith in men like this. Elders are just men, they have the same weaknesses and faults that everyone else has. On the whole the only thing that separates them from normal brothers is the amount of time they've spent knocking on doors.
This site is full of Elders that sinned and that have messed up and made mistakes. Whatever you do as far as joining up please please remember that an elder is no better than a normal brother they're just better at hiding their sins.
They really have sense of closeness and family and my first time there was great. I felt so welcomed and happy there, I enjoy going there. And isn't it all just common sense? -- don't dress slutty -- don't swear-- don't dishonour God.
This is known as "Love bombing" it happens to everyone that's new. The novelty in you will soon wear off and once you are baptised and in the net they won't bother with you anymore. Do an internet search on Jehovah's witnesses and love bombing and find out for yourself. I don't think you'll like what you find.