i say raise your hand and give your experience and tell the congregation that they still need more help.
Two Number 4s, and a large Cup of...
Your DA man Ritchie!!
That's the way to go. Don't wait around on the elders to pull their thumbs out of their A###S and decide whether folks can help or not. That was the way my wife and I did things while we were in. It made us both friends and enemies (you can guess who the enemies were). But it sure made us feel good!
Keep up the good work!
You are one awesome guy Richie