....and I'm not sure how to handle it. Actually, if she were getting too close to a boy, I probably wouldn't know how to handle it either....LOL.
But, as a parent, I'm not sure how to talk to her about it, as it's something I'm familar with. She listed her sexual preference on a live journal first as straight, then bi-curious, and now possible lesbian. At age 14 I don't want her to be anything....to just be asexual.
We live in a small, redneck town which will not accept something such as this very easily. She still stays close to friends in our former town, which is larger and near a university city, and appears to have much same-sex dating and attraction.
Her dad & I are divorced and I am remarried. Her dad & I discussed this and feel that when she is an adult it's her choice, but at this age we are concerned about any possible sexual activity. She has spent the last couple of weekends with this other girl and as I told her dad, if she was interested in a boy I certainly wouldn't allow her to spend the weekend at his house, so I don't feel I can allow her to stay at this girl's house anymore and he agreed.
I don't know exactly what I asking for, but I didn't know if anyone here has run across anything similar or has any suggestions....coming from a JW background, neither her dad or I want to react as our parents would have reacted.