This is not just old 60's advice. About 3 years ago I remember studyinh a W/T during CO's visit. The gist of the subheading was that many kids today don't view oral sex as real sex. The paragraph went on to condemn oral sex and "other practices" as fornication among unmarried people. Then the CO (a never married, born-in-the-borg man of 32) added that such practices are unholy even between married couples. This single 20 second comment caused a lot of turmoil in my marriage. I felt as though the Co was with us each time we made love (i.e don't linger more than 5 seconds, otherwise its oral and not foreplay!). I'm so glad I stopped drinking the kool-aid!
Forbidden sex, we were told it was evil, do we think it's wrong now?
by free2beme 35 Replies latest members adult
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serendipity
mjarka, I remember that WT study. The conductor also made the comment that Oral Sex was wrong for married people as well, which of course, was going beyond the words in the WT.
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ballistic
Well, can I be frank?
As for the "anal" thing, it has never turned me on and no woman I have ever had has asked me to do that, and I have no interest in doing it.
As for going down on a woman - I know they all like it --- extremely, without exception.
I now can't imagine sex without doing that.
Personaly, I can vouch for these facts without asking for a feedback report, but ask yourself, would you rather have your *** licked or be taken up the ****.
up yours
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Es
we had an elder give a talk saying that missionary was the only accepted position. My ex hubby and i went as far as oral and that was bout it. My new hubby well we do anything and everything
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confused_101
I am all for sex, any sex. I don't believe that anyone has the right to tell any one else what or what not to do in their beds (or any where else we do it). I don't ever remember being told how to have sex (or what was wrong and what was appropiate), I was only 21 when I became inactive though. But I guess that it would make sense, seeing as how every other part of our lives were being controlled...down to what kind of car to buy (should be a car for service and not too flashy).
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Gretchen956
I've told this story before, but it does make the point:
My cousin was separated from her JW husband and getting a divorce (was almost through) and she started seeing this guy. Well she went home with him one night after he got off work and the elders followed them. They ended up having sex in the living room on the floor with the elders watching through the window the whole time.
She got called in before the JC, and after they were through talking
toat her, one of the elders said to her privately, "in 30 years of marriage my wife has NEVER been on top." She just looked at him and said, "I'm sorry."What a pathetic bunch! Of course you know they grilled her in the JC about what she had done, minute detail by detail. I swear those JCs were elder porn. Bet they all went home after and played missionary with the wife! Probably had to say a few extra prayers for what they were thinking too.
****shaking head****
Sherry