When I was with my previous girlfriend my mother basically made it abundantly clear that she was not welcome in the house and that she very much did not approve. I felt like I could not even talk about her around my mother and she missed out on what was then a significant portion of my life. And the poor girl was so petrified that my mother would smash something through her windshield that she refused to park in the driveway on numerous occasions.
My current boyfriend my mom is happier with, since it is a boy, but she has made it clear that Ive put her between a rock and a hard place. She's pleased that Im happy but she very much feels like she can't support it since he is worldy. I was never baptised yet she still feels that way.