The new CO and an elder came to see me today!

by GoingGoingGone 46 Replies latest members private

  • GoingGoingGone
    GoingGoingGone

    Yes, there is a new CO since I stopped attending meetings, and this morning my husband came home from service and said that the new CO wanted to drop by and visit me this afternoon... "Just to say hi"... yeah, right. But my husband was in such a good mood that I didn't want to ruin it, so I figured what the heck, let them come....

    After some small talk, Brother New CO gets to the point... quotes a scripture from Galations about "You were running so well", and asks what it was that stumbled me. I reply that I don't have a problem with anyone at the KH, and in fact I have lots of friends there. He looked relieved... I blamed health problems for my not being at meetings, and said that I don't feel that Jehovah is angry with me, because he knows us better than we know ourselves. And I don't feel that Jehovah's neglecting me or my spirituality, either.

    What can they say to that?? Bro. New CO and Bro. Accompanying Elder just nodded. I was soo unafraid of them... such a change from a year and a half ago!!! Bro. New CO invited me to the meeting tonight... I said that it was a bad day, I have a headache. He asked about a phone hookup, but it's out of order at our KH. He asked if he could say a prayer, and I said sure... so he did. Then they left.

    When my husband came home he asked if they'd stopped by.. I said yes, that Bro. New CO was nice, that it was nice to see Bro. Accompanying Elder... I said they had asked if someone had stumbled me, and I said no, that I loved everyone in the hall.... He seemed satisfied.

    I can't believe how easy that was! Just wanted to share!

    GGG

  • Abandoned
    Abandoned
    Yes, there is a new CO since I stopped attending meetings, and this morning my husband came home from service and said that the new CO wanted to drop by and visit me this afternoon... "Just to say hi"... yeah, right.

    This would be enough for me to hear right here. I don't deal with people who lie to me, know they're lying to me, and know I know they're lying to me and still do it.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    good job!

  • Spectre
    Spectre

    Well it sounds like that judicial committee went well.

  • juni
    juni

    good thinking!

    Juni

  • gordon d
    gordon d

    Outstanding!!!

    For what it's worth... your post is MUCH more enjoyable to read if you play the Mission Impossible soundtrack behind it!

  • GoingGoingGone
    GoingGoingGone

    LOL @ gordon d !

    Maybe I should have played the soundtrack while they were here?

    GGG

  • HappyDad
    HappyDad

    Good job GGG. Just kep it neutral the way you are doing.

    HappyDad

  • parakeet
    parakeet

    GGG: "I was soo unafraid of them... such a change from a year and a half ago!!!"

    So glad everything went painlessly for you, GGG. Lack of fear is key in dealing with JWs. I feel so sorry for those who are still afraid of the elders and feel they "owe" them a long, well-thought-out speech or letter explaining why they don't want to attend meetings any more. Once you realize what they are, they lose all their power over you.

    BTW, don't forget to take an aspirin for that "headache."

  • blondie
    blondie

    GGG, you did good!

    Have you ever looked at the sermons the WTS "suggests" JWs use at the door? They all set up a situation about something negative and try and get you to agree.

    When they brought up stumbling, you countered with a positive response. They didn't know where to go with the line of thought.

    Blondie

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